Well you are behaving like kids, screaming on the forums and global rather than pragmatically accepting the consequences of your faction's actions. Spain is a small faction that acts like a superpower, claiming entitlement to ports, making ridiculous demands for peace even on the verge of a crushing defeat. And you have a lot to lose, you have your player base. When you're stuck in La Habana how many do you think will stick around?
But all this talking is fairly pointless at this stage, you've had multiple opportunities to save your faction through peace. Now nobody else is interested in what you have to say, you can't be trusted.