Hey Olav, the one thing, nope two things, you seem to never fall back as opposed to running back. You take less damage to brigade when you fall back rather than wheeling and showing your backside to an enemy volley. Once they are falling back you can reverse their facing when at a safe distance. (and I'll confess to doing the same thing occasionally)
Secondly, most of the time when I see you charge, it is from quite a distance always resulting in over half of your troops condition being lost. Lousy condition and melee do not mix well.
Actually, sorry, a third point. A commander on the battlefield is constantly getting updates on brigades not within his sight, which is a good reason to use the pause button occasionally. If you never use that golden button, you are missing out on the "virtual" dispatches from other regions of the battle field and you become even more overwhelmed with the fog of war.