I absolutely agree with the OP.
I stop playing this game every campaign when I hit chickmauga. Its just not fun anymore.
This game needs to evolve and start looking at things intelligently. Yes I understand that we are trying to keep it "historical," but the focus on victory points is absurd. If i destroy 55% of the opposing army and they hold the victory point, who was really the winner if i only lost 15% of my army? Which army would you rather fight for, the one that lost 15,000 out of 100,000 or the one that lost 55,000 out of 100,000.
Give the player the choice or the alternative victory options.
Oh and please please please get rid of the timer or at least give players the option to turn it off. Would be nice to have some more strategic options that are not currently possible due to time constraints.